When lovemaking fails
Three key reasons sexual intimacy doesn't work, and what you can do about them.
Sexual Healing Canada
The act of love... is a confession. Selfishness screams aloud, vanity shows off, or else true generosity reveals itself.
Albert Camus
Why do we end up in hiding, feeling alone & ashamed?
If we're all looking for love...
It's so easy to be held.
Before the hurt builds up...
And performance anxiety begins to grow.
But then we learn we must perform...
and overwhelming pressure kills any connection.
Then guilt and shame invade...
Focusing on what we think we should be experiencing.
We become a spectator to ourselves
As we begin to crumble under those obsessive thoughts about our response.
Our self-criticisms flatten us...
And we put our worries, demands & expectations of performance on each other
Our internal pressure then leaks out
That we hold each others hearts in our hands.
It's like we've completely forgotten
We will forever push each other away.
Until we heal the anxiety and shame
Let's put love in order and create a passion that will last for a lifetime!
Your relationship is too precious!